The spiritual journey must begin with a quest for truth. But
you first need to understand, “What is truth?” before you go looking for it.
The problem for most people is that their spiritual journey
does not begin from this motivation or at all. Many people’s spiritual journey
through life is happening to them like an affair behind their back. They have
not the wit or will to see it. That’s because for most people, the only spirituality
they know, comes to them as a pre-packaged and moderately priced religious/cultural
window.
How this window, through which they will gaze out at the
world, comes to them depends all on the lottery of chance which will put them in
a certain geographical region and race/culture. Keep in mind the “window” is the “religion”
and the humans’ “gaze” and “ability to process what we see” out of that window
is the REAL MEAT, the “spiritual” part of the experience.
No matter what part of the world you are born into and which
window you gaze out of, you will be most likely taught two things:
One- The window provided to you by the lottery of your birth
is unquestionably the best window to gaze out of the world and all other
windows are inferior! You are, merely by the accident of your birth, superior
to someone else and you should feel tremendous reassurance and self-worth about
that. In some cases, so much self-worth you have Manifest Destiny and Divine
Authority to do as you please to whom you please.
Two- The rest of your self-worth and your entire sense of
purpose will derive from the following categories of “hierarchies of superiority”-
financial class, gender, race, physical/mental ability. What about emotional
ability? Ah, that does not even warrant consideration. It’s sentimentality, self-indulgence
and weakness!
Note that our current order of human value puts physical and
mental ability at the very bottom of that priority list. It does not even
consider the value of our capacity to empathize, extend love, affection and a
sense of self-worth and belonging. We rather judge other people on characteristics
determined largely by the lottery of chance while calling ourselves “meritocracies”.
When you hear Dr. Martin Luther King’s words about being
judged by the “content of one’s character” above all else, he’s literally
handing humankind the key to their liberation from false hierarchies of race,
class and gender. It has imprisoned us
for thousands of years. Now it’s time for a new age where we focus on the only
things that matter in human beings- physical, emotional and mental ability.
Yes, we need all three! This is the trinity of what constitutes
our character. When people start focusing on this…when it because it becomes THE
STANDARD by which we determine roles, responsibilities and rewards, it will
become easier to identify defective characters and intervene the same way we do
regarding things like Climate Change and Poverty.
This area of our humanity has been neglected for thousands
of years. There’s a lot of unhealed emotional/psychological
trauma. Many humans are predisposed to violence (inwardly or outwardly
expressed) or lack empathy. Not all of them are guided by superior intellect
and a strict internal moral code like BBC’s high functioning sociopath, Sherlock. They are the bullies and
murderers clogging our prisons. Or worse, for in our world of badly prioritized
value systems we have allowed many of these defective humans to ascend to
echelons of power provided they have an IQ and appetite big enough.
Psychopaths, sociopaths and narcissists have made the world in their image.
However, more of us are realizing that blind, predatory ambition
to consume and expand with no check and balance of the physical ramifications
(environmental destruction/disease); the emotional ramifications (low
self-esteem, desperation, apathy) and the mental implications (de-evolution to a
primitive mental state) is not mammalian or even human, it is viral, like Agent
Smith pointed out to Neo in the movie The
Matrix.
Some of us can see this so clearly yet others, cannot. The
reason? They are staring out of the world through the blurry “window” of some
religion. That’s why religion (and all other forms of false hierarchy) needs to
be deprioritized. They protect the very systems holding back mankind from pure
enlightenment, forever delaying the brotherhood of man in our shared
imagination.
In places plagued by warring religious supremacist ideologies, gender
oppression, class division and injustice, the people suffering need to perfect their
“gaze” and “ability to process what they see”. They need to be taught critical
thinking along with mathematics, science and grammar. They need to be taught
how to empathize and take ethical action from that place of empathy. Clearly, their religion
is not going to teach them this, not necessarily. Only scientific evidence and spiritual
truth working their respective roles can do that.
In every developed country where civil, free, open discussion with
strict adherence to the highest standards of proper debate (that means no logical fallacies) has been allowed to happen over a long period of time, the anti-gay proponents always end up losing the debate.
Common logical
fallacies (invalid means of supporting arguments) you need to avoid (Click to enlarge).
Places where homophobia is deeply entrenched are places where this level of discussion has not been
allowed to happen sufficiently or at all. However in this day and age of information and communication, more of these discussions are happening, just go online and you will see them for yourself. I do not know whether these arguments are making anti-gay people understand why their arguments do not measure up when
fact-checked and assessed for logical consistency.
However I have been accused many times by anti-gay people that I along with all the scientific sources I use, the academic community, medical community, UN, popular culture, politicians,
theologians, celebrities, Nobel Peace Prize winners, even the pope, are all
part of some radical gay conspiracy! I am still waiting for evidence proving this but while I do, let's test these anti-gay arguments.
1. 1.It’s A Choice/Homosexuals Can Change-
Science has clearly demonstrated that sexual attraction is
an involuntary, biochemical response not a cognitive one. Our
pupils dilate, our brain releases serotonin and oxytocin, our heart rate
increases, blood rushes to the surface of our skin within seconds of
seeing someone we find attractive. We may not fully understand why certain
people trigger this reaction so effortlessly but others just don’t.
Learn about the science of sexual attraction. It is all inherently instinctive and controlled by our most primitive brain.
When a healthy,
attractive, woman reeking of ovulation pheromones walks into a bar of straight
men, it causes a primal mating response. The men, automatically sit up, stare,
puff up, speak louder, deepen their voices and show off their prowess (physical
or material) to get her attention. They do this without even realizing it. In
fact, scientists studying this have actually proven the part of the brain
responsible for decision-making shuts down for an average of 2 seconds (see from 20:30) and the
primitive lower brain takes over completely. Same sexy woman walks into a room with gay men... *crickets
chirping*.You cannot fake non-reaction because the response is not a conscious choice.
Did you choose to consistently fall in love with the gender
that you do? Everyone asked this almost always answer "No" or "They don't remember". The only people who have a choice as far as sexual attraction
goes are bisexuals and even they will say their bisexuality orientation was not
a choice.
Following closely on the heels of this argument is the assertion
that “Gays Can Change If They Want To.”
The only thing a gay person can change is whether and how they
will act on their innate programing. However, suppressing and acting against
one’s sexual orientation is not healthy.
In 2012, PAHO, a division of WHO (World Health
Organization) released the following statement, “Since homosexuality is
not a disorder or a disease, it does not require a cure. There is no medical
indication for changing sexual orientation. Practices known as 'reparative
therapy' or 'conversion therapy' represent "a serious threat to the health
and well-being — even the lives — of affected people." The negative effects of reparative therapy lead to this official statement from several boards comprised of thousands of medical professionals including this one from The International Society of Psychiatric-Mental Health Nurses (ISPN).
The ex-gay movement is crumbling. Most of the people who
founded, endorsed or were spokespeople for these programs now renounce them or
like John Paulk and George Rekkers were caught in scandalous double lives. Dr.
Spitzer, the most respected psychologist the ex-gay movement could find to back
their claims now admits his claims were based on inaccurate findings. Two
months ago Exodus International an ex-gay organization, in a dramatic
investigative report on OWN, admitted they were misguided and ruined many lives
by asserting gay people can change.
Reparative therapy has been condemned by every single
medical, clinical and sociological and child welfare board in first
world countries and is being outlawed as legal medical practice. The really curious thing is though that it would be very easy for them prove their therapy works.
Step A.- Get a sample of confirmed (using psychoanalysis, polygraph and the gold standard- penis plethysmograph ) homosexuals who are highly motivated to change their sexual orientation and have no idea they are test subjects.
Step B- Subject them to ex-gay therapy
Step C- Retest the subjects to see if their orientation has indeed changed. The penis plethysmograph rarely fails to show where people's inclinations truly point.
Like many defective products in first world
countries, those who profit from the ex-gay fraud are not willing to cut their financial
losses. It is after all a multi-million dollar industry. People pay thousands for the treatment and many who do the "faith-healing" exorcism version also expect a "contribution" for their efforts. Now that the first world is wise to these charlatans, they are now exporting it to developing and poor countries where
people are less educated and more gullible. The whole matter of choice
vs. inherent trait is the basis for their second argument which is:
2 2. It’s Unnatural
In the 1990s animal biologists began documenting homosexual
courtship, sexual play, sexual intercourse, long-lasting pair bonds in animal
species in the wild ranging from bison to bottle-nose dolphins and 500 cases
are well documented. These studies have been peer reviewed and published
in respected scientific references or you can access
National Geographic Online for a wealth of more information.
Diversity, complexity, anomalies, mutations, accidents are the
normal order of things in the natural world. Open a Guiness Book Of WorldRecords and then tell me that human beings are naturally uniform in our
characteristics. Clearly we are not and we already accept this fact in many
human characteristics from height to handedness to intelligence to
psychological and physical ability. Yet somehow when it comes to gender and
sexuality we suddenly get very insistent that these traits never experience any
of the diversity, complexity for which nature is so well known.
The fact is the only thing that is unnatural is the expectation
that 7Billion individuals will just fit into a binary of narrowly defined pigeon
holes. This expectation gets
even more ridiculous when you actually look at how gender/sexuality is
determined.
Now remember we already showed that sexuality is ruled by the
subconscious mind. That is the lower, more primitive part of the brain formed
at the earliest stages of fetal development. By the time you are born, that
wiring has long been shaped. Do you know what shapes that wiring? There is no
single genetic smoking gun for intelligence, handedness (whether you are left
or right handed), musicality (some people are inherently tone deaf),
introvert/extrovert personalities and similarly, there is no single genetic
smoking gun for sexual orientation.
However, biologists are realizing there are things call
epi-genetic markers which determine how
genes will work in response to particular environments. In utero, there is a
huge biological window for any number of environments to trigger these epi-markers.
At conception, we are all gender neutral (save at the chromosomal level) and we
only begin to develop gender differences in the brain, biochemistry and anatomy
in the second trimester and it all depends on a cocktail of hormones and
antibodies heavily influenced by the mother’s biochemistry, which is also
heavily influenced by her environment, diet, emotions, stress etc.
Every year, millions of children are born with chromosomal,
hormonal and anatomical variances in gender and sexual identity. It is not far-fetched. It is reality.
Putting the final nail in the “Gays cannot be born that
way” coffin is that no post-partum universal environmental explanation exists.
LGBT people come from single parent families, two-parent families; families with loving parents, families with abusive parents, rich families, poor families.....
deeply religious families, secular/heathen families of every race and culture around the world.
Not even societies that are extremely heterosexual and/or extremely homophobic can prevent LGBT people from being born. Clearly, the cause is biological.
The fallacious “unnatural” argument has another angle that is
equally ridiculous it’s called:
3. Plumbing/Reproduction
The anti-gay proponent will say, “Look! Clearly you can see that
men and women were designed like a lock and key to fit together and to
reproduce. It is wrong not to use those organs for what they were designed for!”
This argument is what is known as a non-sequitor. In other
words, while one statement is indeed valid, it does not relate to the argument
being made. I’ll give an example:
True statement: Ducks migrate north at certain times of the
year.
Non-sequitor: Therefore that means it is okay to shoot them if
they migrate north your way.
The first statement while true has nothing to do with proving
that the second statement, (the conclusion) is also valid. So let’s do the same
with the Plumbing/Reproduction argument.
True statement: The “plumbing” of men and women is adapted (admittedly,
some better than others) for reproduction.
Non-sequitor- Not using that “plumbing” for reproductive sex
makes you a bad person or is itself a crime or evil thing.
If this argument was valid, it would be universal in its
application but it is not.
True statement: The mouth and vocal chords were designed for speech.
Non-sequitor- People who are mute even though nothing is physically wrong with their
speech organs and use other body parts (their hands) or tools to
communicate are bad people, criminals and evil.
See how ridiculous that argument is now?
The wonderful thing about humans is we find creative ways to
adapt to the cards we are dealt. Homosexuals aren’t the only ones who
have to find alternative ways outside the "penis inside vagina" formula, to enjoy sexual intimacy or start a
family. Many heterosexual couples, due to infertility, size
discrepancies, dyspareunia or human seminal plasma hypersensitivity, also have
to adapt their sex lives to suit the hand nature dealt them. Are they evil? Are
they committing a crime?
Want to know what is truly evil and a crime? By the time you
have finished reading this over 10,000 babies would have been born and most of
them were unplanned and unwanted and less than a third of them will
get all basic needs met. Seven billion and counting! We are suffocating on our
waste and running out of resources. Yet some insist that the
minority of people who are unable to reproduce by pure accident of sexual desire, are
somehow doing the planet a major disservice.
Fast on the heels of this “plumbing” argument is this whole
obsession with:
3. Anal Sex
Most people are squeamish about anal sex. This is more of a
cultural thing as clearly, when we look at erotic literature from certain
cultures anal sex was no big deal. From the Karma Sutra, to Greek and the art
of Ido-era Japan we see it was merely considered just another sexual position
for men and women and/or men and men. Victorian era literature calls the anus
“the little rosebud”.
It used to be a highly specialized skill of experienced lovers
to know how to make the rosebud “bloom” i.e. the sphincter muscles relax and
willingly receive penetration with as little pain and as much pleasure as
possible. The recipient of penetration was described in some erotic literature to
be in a state of “kinetic bliss”. Of course we know the male G-spot is located
in the anus and when astutely stimulated can led to men experiencing orgasms
that are more intense and full-bodied with the same kind of lasting
after-shocks women experience. We also know that women’s clitorises are more
than just that little nub at the top of the vulva but it actually extends deep
inside their bodies like a wishbone with two legs called crura, so any pressure
from the back can also be highly pleasurable for some women.
There is no reason why anal sex cannot be safe and pleasurablebut it must be done in moderation and before it is done it requires a high
degree of hygienic preparation; while it is being done it requires a lot of
communication, skill, patience, condoms and lots of lube. It is pure laziness,
selfishness, haste, lack of education, concern and moderation that makes anal
sex painful and dangerous.
By claiming anal sex is something only gay men and ALL gay men do,
anti-gay proponents hope that the bad experiences and squeamishness people have
towards this sexual act will color how they see gay men. Some even try to add
to the squeamishness by claiming the extreme fringe-fetish practice of scat
(fecal play) is something all or only gay men do which is a blatant lie. The truth
is anal sex is not a “gay act” any more than cunninglingus is a “lesbian act”. The oldest known depictions of heterosexual anal appear 800
years later on Peruvian pottery (c. 300 A.D.). In Peru 1,700 years ago,
hetero-anal intercourse was by no means rare. On surviving pottery depicting
erotic art, one-third of it shows hetero-anal intercourse. Chinese and Japanese
woodblock prints (16th to19th centuries) depict heterosexual anal intercourse
fairly frequently. And ever since the invention of photography (1840) and
motion pictures (1890), pornography has shown hetero-anal play.
A 2011 study in The Journal of Sexual Medicine sampled 24,787
gay and bisexual men. The single most commonly reported behavior was kissing on
the mouth (74.5%), followed closely by oral sex (72.7%) and mutual masturbation
(68.4%). About one-third of men in the sample reported engaging in anal sex
(37.2%). In addition, according to the US Center for Disease Control, 44% of
straight men and 36% of straight women admitted to having had anal
sex.
The truth is anal sex is more of a heterosexual act as overall more
heterosexuals do it than gay men. Perhaps anti-gay proponents
should stop assuming they know what people are doing in the privacy of their
bedroom. Clearly, they don’t.
However is it a sound argument to say being homosexual causes
HIV and therefore that proves it is wrong? Let's now address:
5. Misuse Of Statistics
Anti-gay proponents love STD statistics on gay men the
same way white racists use incarceration statistics on black men to claim being
black is inferior and comes with a criminal mindset. This erroneous tactic is
easily debunked.
Notice how lesbians who rank the lowest in HIV/STD rates are rarely ever brought up by those who love to misuse statistics.
The statistical health risks of unprotected penis-vaginal sex would
fill up this entire article. Not just STDS, cervical cancers, vaginal bruising,
yeast infections, urinary tract infections (also called Honeymooners Disease)
but all the ravaging physical and psychological risks of pregnancy, including
death in childbirth. Heterosexual
women of color lead the world population in HIV infection rates. Does that mean being
a heterosexual woman is wrong and causes these outcomes? Of course not!
Statistics cannot be used to make character judgements, predictions of the entire group or prove causation (what caused that particular outcome). Statistics do not tell the whole story of
why something is happening to a group of people. We cannot conclude that what causes the high
rates of HIV among gay men, particularly gay men of color in lower income
brackets is their sexual orientation.
What we can examine is how are they expressing their sexual orientation. Is it with laziness, selfishness, haste, ignorance, lack of concern for others, dishonesty, desperation/addiction? If their sexual expression is unhealthy then what is causing it? How come not all gay men act like that but instead choose knowledge, self-respect, concern for their partners, safety and honesty? How come some gay men avoid these diseases and will never get them?
Statistics show that the rates of HIV are higher among racial minorities who are already treated as socially inferior by the wider society. It is higher in more homophobic societies. It is higher in poorer societies. It is higher among men who are drug addicts and/or homeless and involved in prostitution to survive. What is the echo these people hear from society- You are
shit! You are dirty! You are worthless! You DESERVE TO DIE. How we are treated by others affects our self-esteem and thus the choices we make. People with no self-value and intense sexual shame whether male or female will let themselves be treated like dirty rags by others. They are more likely to take drugs, which impairs judgment and makes practicing safe sex next to impossible. They are more likely to become addicts, including sexual addicts. By far, the most powerful negative messages gay people hear is from religion.
6. But God Says...
This is one of the three “last straw” arguments. It is
not as popular as before because in academic, legal and civil forums “What God
says” cannot be logically proven as God never appears in person to give his
testimony on the matter. The claim “God says…” is always followed
by quote-mining from a collection of man-made writings and adding one’s
interpretation du jour and saying it is God’s opinion, which must be taken on
nothing else but faith, which not everyone has or can be expected to have.
So the question is really not about what “God says” but whether
these ancient writings can be taken as:
(1)Authoritative.
Basically what this means is: Is what the bible says ALWAYS
TRUE? Clearly the answer is no. If you were diagnosed with Hansen’s disease
(leprosy) which we know from science is caused by Mycobacterium leprae and
Mycobacterium lepromatosis, would you go to see a dermatologist and get
antibiotic treatments or would you apply the bible’s advice:
Get two birds. Kill one. Dip the live bird in the blood of the
dead one. Sprinkle the blood on the leper seven times, and then let the
blood-soaked bird fly away. Next find a lamb and kill it. Wipe some of its
blood on the patient’s right ear, thumb, and big toe. Sprinkle seven times with
oil and wipe some of the oil on his right ear, thumb and big toe. Repeat.
Finally find another pair of birds. Kill one and dip the live bird in the dead
bird’s blood. Wipe some blood on the patient’s right ear, thumb, and big toe.
Sprinkle the house with blood 7 times.– Leviticus 14:2-52
Let us never forget that the bible and many ancient books were
written by bronze and iron-age men unaware of how much of the world worked.
They did not know what caused earthquakes, storms or even that women
contributed 50% of the genetic material towards babies. Sometimes they got it
right but many times, they fell woefully short of what is actually true.
(2) Binding
We need to look no further than the bible thumpers themselves.
They don’t follow the bible in all respects. Every single anti-gay, biblical
cherry picker does things condemned in the bible as a matter of daily living
with absolutely no fear of condemnation. How many have divorced and remarried
(Mark 10:11, Luke 16:18), worn mixed fabrics or sown two types of seed in one
plot (Leviticus 19:19, partook of our modern banking system which is based on
usury (charging interest) Exodus 22:25 , Ezekiel 22:12, Luke 6:35, Psalm 15:5. These are just a few
things. If I were to highlight all, this article would be about 10,000 words
longer. If anti-gay people can pick and choose what to follow from the bible
why can’t anyone else?
(4) The Basis For Civil Laws For A Diverse Population
The bible also condemns idolatry, over one thousand times in
fact. Does that mean the human rights of Hindus and Orisha worshipers should
now be up for debate? How can any Government honor the Constitution and enforce
the preferred biblical interpretation of some Christians, on a diverse,
multicultural population, without infringing on the fundamental rights of
others? They can’t.
We live in a diverse society with different beliefs.
So those who believe being gay is a sin will simply have to
learn how to be content with trying to control their own heads, hearts, home
and houses of worship. In matters of public life and law they will have to
learn to live and let live, the same way they already do for all the other
“sins” they would never dare make a matter of legislation/vote, in this day and
age.
We're coming down to the two last and most desperate and fallacious arguments of all. Beginning with...
7. Gays Will Molest Children
Let us begin by affirming that adults
with healthy sexual urges look to other sexually mature adults to fulfill them.
Think back to when you began to sexually develop at puberty. You did not get
crushes on little children did you? No. You got crushes on your peers or older.
At thirteen you put up pictures of Orlando Bloom, Megan Fox etc. on your
bedroom wall. You began to find breasts, hips, body hair, deeper voices,
developed male musculature and other signs of sexual maturity, to be appealing.
When you eventually came of appropriate age to have sex, you felt an even deeper satisfaction when the one you desired was aware of your interest, understood what it meant and in return was able to flirt back and willingly participate. Their consent was part of what made it special and indicated their desire/love for you was real. This was the case whether you were gay or straight.
People who desire children are called pedophiles and they are
classed as having a medical disorder. Why? Because for human sexuality to deliver
mutual emotional or psychological benefits it must involve two sexually mature,
consenting partners.
A child has not yet developed sexually in any respect. Their genitals are immature. They lack any emotional
or psychological ability to equally participate in a sexual relationship. This
means that an adult/child relationship will always be one-sided, premature and
predatory. The adult might be getting their fulfillment but it will always be
at the child’s detriment. A child cannot consent to sex. Pedophiles therefore have to employ
manipulative and abusive tactics to get what they want.
But what about men who only molest boys?
An expert panel of researchers convened by the National Academy
of Sciences, noted in a 1993 study, that the assumption that male molesters of
male victims are homosexual in orientation is a false one. Most molesters of
boys do not report sexual interest in adult men. (National Research Council,
1993, p. 143).
Choosing same-gender children has nothing to do with sexual
orientation. I would advise you to go read the FBI’s Profile of who is most
likely to be a pedophile and how they select their victims. After reading it,
you will realize that a pedophile is most likely to be male and least likely to
be a gay one.
Here is a summation:
Predators of children who classified as developmentally
retarded, lack any adult orientation gay or straight. They see themselves as
children and they find adult features and adult flirtations to be repugnant. But
of course, they are not children.
Whether they like it or not, they have hormone driven adult urges. So what
starts out as innocent play with children always
turns into sexual assault.
Predators of children do not like attracting attention to
themselves. They will not live a life that puts them under public scrutiny. They
camouflage and fly under the radar. So in societies like ours, it is the
straight-laced, “respectable”, outwardly heterosexual, married man nobody
suspects, that would actually be the most suspect by a properly trained officer
of the law. The flamboyantly gay man, not so much.
Predators of children need to have total domination and control
in their relationships. They like authoritative roles that give them the right
to have their commands followed without question- teacher, coach, religious
leader, scout troop leader, celebrity. Even better if that role puts them in
unsupervised contact with kids. If they seek any adult sexual relationships it
will not be with an equal. They are most likely to pick a very submissive,
dependent woman of lesser intelligence than them. Since most pedophiles are
men, it is not very likely they will seek adult sexual relations with other
men.
Predators of children pick their victims on two criteria (a)
Opportunity. In other words what is most available to them and looks like easy
pickings. True to their predatory nature, they look for the children isolated
from the pack, that seem soft and vulnerable and the easiest to intimidate. (b)
Purging psychological trauma. A man who was abused as a boy will most likely
pick other little boys to abuse. When he does, he will select a victim that
most resembles his ideal childhood self and reenact what was done to him to the innocent child.
Jerry Sandusky, is the classic FBI Pedophile Profile.
A respected coach, married to a gullible, trusting woman,
enjoys unsupervised access and authority over kids.
Homophobia actually perpetuates the cycle of child molestation.
In homophobic, macho societies, boys are overlooked emotionally and are often too scared to
report sexual abuse and risk being blamed or persecuted or ridiculed for being sissies. So
their trauma goes untreated and as they become adults, mutates into something worse.
If indeed you
really care about children arm yourself with proper knowledge and stop acting
like headless chickens over LGBT people. If indeed you care about children
never leave them unsupervised, be vigilant and carefully observe and profile
the adults in their lives (according to real criteria) that includes family and
relatives. Be extra protective of kids who are sensitive, quiet, shy, naturally very obedient and loners.
8. Gays Will Destroy Society
This is usually the last ditch, desperate argument, already
rendered impotent by historic and present evidence that shows the opposite to
be true.
The most powerful, long-lived empires and dynasties of
historical record were usually those that recognized LGBT people and gave them
some area or role to have freedom. We know this because these societies left
their homoerotic art and literature behind. Today, the countries that consistently rank the
highest on World Indices of health, education, economy, class mobility,
transparency, security and happiness (Norway, Switzerland, Canada, Sweden and New Zealand) are those that were the first out of the
gate to fully recognize LGBT rights. Some have had gay marriage for over 20 years now. Surely, their societies would have crumbled by now, if that claim was true.
Before you gather your mob with their torches and pitchforks,
consider what Nobel Peace Prize Winner, Archbishop Desmond Tutu in a public address
on Friday March 12, 2010: “LGBT people are part of so many families. They
are part of the human family. They are part of God's family!” Now, I am not
saying that by any means are LGBT people perfect. We have our problems too, but
so do heterosexuals. Last time I looked things aren’t all roses on your side of
the Kinsey Scale- divorce, unwanted pregnancies, kids being born and thrown away, women raped every three minutes, sexual harassment, women entrapping men by getting pregnant, women using sex as currency/manipulation, mercenary relationships. Seems like you have some things to focus on instead of obsessing over LGBT people and what we are doing.
Heterosexuality is not innately better than homosexuality. They both come
with their own share of problems. What matters is how the individual chooses
to express their orientation.
Despite family rejection, social stigma, regular abuse and
discrimination, LGBT people in Trinidad and Tobago have contributed in every
field most noticeably academics, arts, music, literature, theatre, fashion in
ways that helped put us on the world stage. We start businesses that employ people. We take care of elderly parents as we are often the ones without children. Funny how people like to mamaguy (flatter) us with
awards, steal “cool-factor” and cash in on our creativity then slap us in the face by refusing to repeal Victorian-era
laws, long abandoned by Britain as inhumane, joining the garbage heap of other
unenlightened ideas.
These present outmoded laws basically class LGBT citizens the same as rapists and thieves. Yet whose fundamental right to person or property is being taken away by LGBT people living and loving? Nobody’s! So why are our consensual, personal, intimate relations being criminalized?
Why do we continue
to stand with the intolerant and their losing arguments on the losing side of
history? Especially with the preponderance of scientific, factual, ethical
and human rights precedents! Especially since “Tolerance” is our national watchword!
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